Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Homily for August 19, 2007
Liturgical Year C - Cycle I
20th Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Fr. John Carney
Topic: Conflict and Division
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Reading I
Jer 38:4-6, 8-10
In those days, the princes said to the king: “Jeremiah ought to be put to death; he is demoralizing the soldiers who are left in this city, and all the people, by speaking such things to them; he is not interested in the welfare of our people, but in their ruin.”  King Zedekiah answered: “He is in your power”; for the king could do nothing with them.  And so they took Jeremiah and threw him into the cistern of Prince Malchiah, which was in the quarters of the guard, letting him down with ropes.  There was no water in the cistern, only mud, and Jeremiah sank into the mud.
 
Ebed-melech, a court official, went there from the palace and said to him: “My lord king, these men have been at fault in all they have done to the prophet Jeremiah, casting him into the cistern.  He will die of famine on the spot, for there is no more food in the city.”  Then the king ordered Ebed-melech the Cushite to take three men along with him, and draw the prophet Jeremiah out of the cistern before he should die.
 
Reading II
Heb 12:1-4
Brothers and sisters:
Since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us rid ourselves of every burden and sin that clings to us and persevere in running the race that lies before us while keeping our eyes fixed on Jesus, the leader and perfecter of faith.  For the sake of the joy that lay before him he endured the cross, despising its shame, and has taken his seat at the right of the throne of God.  Consider how he endured such opposition from sinners, in order that you may not grow weary and lose heart.  In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding blood.
 
Gospel
Luke 12:49-53
Jesus said to his disciples: “I have come to set the earth on fire, and how I wish it were already blazing!  There is a baptism with which I must be baptized, and how great is my anguish until it is accomplished!  Do you think that I have come to establish peace on the earth?  No, I tell you, but rather division.  From now on a household of five will be divided, three against two and two against three; a father will be divided against his son and a son against his father, a mother against her daughter and a daughter against her mother, a mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law.”
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How would you like to preach that Gospel?  Jesus asked his disciples a question.  “Do you think I have come here to establish peace on the earth?”  You think they would have said, “Well, yes.”  ‘Peace be with you’, is how they greeted each other.  ‘Shalom Aleichem.’  ‘Peace to men of good will.’  ‘Peace is my gift to you.’  That is not what he says though.  He says, “I have come to set the earth on fire and how I wish it were already blazing.  Do you think I have come to establish peace on earth?  No, I tell you, but rather division.  From now on, a household of five will be divided three against two and two against three.  A father will be divided against his son and a son against his father; a mother against her daughter and a daughter against her mother.  Then, of course, a mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law.” But we already knew that.
 
Why this apparent contradiction?  We call Jesus, “The prince of peace”.  So what’s he talking about?  He says, “I have come here to bring division.  I’ve come here to encourage conflict.”  What’s this about?  Well, following Jesus means we obey his commandments.  He said that very clearly to us.  He said, “If you love me…”    We know he loves us.  He says, “If you love me keep my commandments.”  Elsewhere he said, “You know it’s not those who say, ‘Lord, Lord!’ who will enter the kingdom of heaven but those who do the will of my Father.”  That’s the deal.  That’s how we show our love by keeping God’s commandments, especially the commandment to love each other. 
 
The root word of disciple is discipline.  There is a discipline of conduct involved in being a Christ follower, a Christian.  Following Jesus has consequences.  We heard that in Jeremiah’s case.  They threw him into a muddy cistern because he spoke for God.  Paul tells us in that second reading about the struggle that he is constantly undergoing, the struggle not to sin.  We know what Paul means, don’t we?  It is an ongoing lifelong struggle, not to sin.  We need to keep struggling.  Unfortunately, many people have a very effective way of dealing with temptation.  They give into it immediately.  But we can’t do that.  We have to keep struggling against sin.  Jesus in the Gospel talks about family fights because of him.  Jesus’ ways are consistent and clear. 
 
The church doesn’t change.  God doesn’t change the commandments from one generation to the next.  They’re not adapted to fit the current mores of the people.  They are written in stone.  Following Jesus does not mean taking the path of least resistance or taking whatever path is easiest for us. 
 
Let me tell you a few stories.  There’s a “Dear Abby” column but I should start to write a “Dear Abbot” column.  Abbot means father.  By the way, the stories I’ll tell you, you don’t know who these people are because preachers have the right and a license to change little facts about a story, sometimes gender, ages, places so you know nothing. 
 
First, a young teenage girl about Dominica’s age came to see me.  She said she was worried very much about her grandmother.  She loved her grandmother very much and her grandmother was living in adultery with another man.  Several years ago, she threw grandpa out of the house.  Now, she took in this other fellow and it’s a scandal to the family.  It’s a scandal to the little community in which they live.  Mostly, she was worried about her grandmother because she was worried about her spiritual welfare, her health.  She said, “What should I do?”  I said, “Well, think about going and seeing grandma and telling her that you love her very much and that you’re worried about her and that you think she’s doing the wrong thing here.  You’re worried about her soul.  Pray before you do it.  Pray when you’re doing it and pray after you do it.”  A while later she came to see me and I could look at her face and know it didn’t go well.  I said, “What happened?”  She said, “Grandma threw me out of the house.  She said, ‘Get out!  Who do you think you are telling me how to live?’”  I said, “Is your grandma a Christian?”  She said, “She’s a great Catholic with a statue of somebody in every room.  She would never miss mass and she’s still receiving Holy Communion.”  Somehow, grandma has rewritten the Ten Commandments. 
 
Conflict and division caused by Jesus Christ.  He set a fire in this family. 
 
Another case, “Dear Abbot”:  I knew a woman a while back and I met her at Project Rachel.  (Project Rachel is a project for post-abortive men and women to try to help them heal and be reconciled to God and church.)  A wonderful young woman in her twenties and she had finished the program and really was healed.  She came to see me though and she said, “I’m not quite healed.  I have a problem and it’s my father.  She said, “My father, when I became pregnant…” I think she was sixteen or seventeen.  “When I became pregnant, I went to see my dad and my dad said, “You are going to get an abortion.”  He said, “You can’t have this baby.”  She said, “Well, can we consider adoption?”  He said, “No!  You can’t take nine months off from your life at this time because you’re pregnant.  We have plans for you for college.”  I said, “Is your dad a Christian?”  She said, “Oh yeah, a good Catholic.  As a matter of fact, he’s a very strict, conservative Catholic.”  He is all those things except in this case, when it involves his daughter.  She had the abortion.  She said, “Although, I’ve been reconciled, my dad isn’t.  I feel some anger and some hurt.  My dad almost forced me into this but I accept responsibility but I’m worried about him.”  So I said, “Well, pray, go see your dad and tell him you love him.”  I don’t tell anyone to go anywhere and do anything but I suggested to her.  “Tell him you love him very much and that you’re worried about him.”  She did and when I saw her the next time I knew it went well.  I could see it on her face.  She said, “Yes.  He’s reconciled now also.”  She was prepared to bring conflict and division because the truth demanded it.  God demanded it.
 
You have your own stories, don’t you, all of you?  You could write all sorts of stories where your Christian values or Christian values of people you know have brought conflict and division.  What we need to know today is that it is okay.  As a matter of fact, Jesus ordered us to do this.  There’s a sloppy notion of Christianity as some kind of “feel good” exercise and it’s not.  Sometimes, I have seen people who are new to the church, they are on fire with the love of God, and they know now that they have found Jesus and everything is going to be great.  See them two years later, more problems than ever.  Our faith doesn’t mean a state of perpetual happiness.  There’s a deep down inside joy that comes from following Christ but also a lot of crosses and pain.
 
As our young people go back to school, especially to high school and college, I was thinking, “What a challenge they have to follow Christ” because look at the world out there.  Look at what is acceptable in music, in film.  You know what’s on the Internet.  I wonder if a young high school student told her friends, “I don’t listen to that kind of disgusting music because it’s vulgar, filthy and denigrates women as much of that music does.  I don’t drink or use drugs because it’s my Christian values and I want to be a virgin when I get married.”  Would she be persecuted if she said those things?  Probably.  As a matter of fact, undoubtedly; although many of our young people say just those things.  I was talking to a family after mass.  I remember when I was seventeen.  These kids today, many of them are heroic in their Christian ways and I’m really impressed with them because it takes courage.
 
Jesus brings the fire of truth to a world of deception, a fire to test and illuminate and purify and burns us.  He says, “I don’t give peace as the world gives peace.”  To Jesus peace is not the absence of conflict it is the “Shalom of God”, the inside knowledge that all is right between you and God.  Don’t forget the Gospel is posed to us by Jesus. The question we have today is, “How will you live, according to His way or your way?”  Salvation or death?  About five or six times when planning a funeral, the family has asked that at the funeral we play, I Did It My Way.  And I say, “No, no, absolutely, positively not.”  They say, “But he loved that song.”  “No.  No because it’s the antithesis of the way we are to live.”  We’re supposed to do it His way, not my way.  Peter Crete, the author, says that. However, “I Did It My Way" is the theme song of hell.”  So if you die, when you die and when you wake up in that other place, if you hear this song ask for a do-over. 
 
I hope that we hear another song, Amazing Grace.