Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Homily for April 6, 2006
Liturgical Year C - Cycle I
Good Friday
By Fr. John Carney
Topic: The Seven Last Words of Jesus Christ Our Savior
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Pieta
1.  "Father, forgive them for they know not what they do."  Lk. 23: 34 

2. "Today you will be with me in paradise."  Lk. 23: 43

3. "Woman, behold your son.  Son, behold your mother."  Jn. 19: 26-7

4. "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?"  Mk. 15: 34 (Mt. 27: 46)

5. "I thirst."  Jn. 19: 28.
 
6. "It is finished."  Jn 19: 30
 
7. "Father, into your hands I commend my spirit."  Lk. 23:46

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On Good Friday, in most parishes, it is appropriate that the priest preaches on what is known as ‘The Seven Last Words of Jesus Christ,’ actually the ‘Seven Last Sayings.’ They are not all found in John’s Gospel that we just heard. We can find some in Matthew and others in Luke. These are seven last words, or seven last sayings, that are obviously very important. Jesus said them with great difficulty, hanging from a cross, when he could hardly breathe. The Gospel refers to the fact that “Their legs were broken,” and that was so they would die. Their legs gave them the ability to support themselves so that they could breathe but with broken legs, they could not breathe. Jesus had already died. He said these words, his last sermon if you will, from the pulpit of the cross. They are very important words for us.

"Father, forgive them for they know not what they do."
We hear these words in Luke’s Gospel. Imagine that setting, the setting in which he said these words. “Forgive them.” He had just been falsely accused, arrested, betrayed, mocked, humiliated, and tortured terribly. His response to that is “Forgive them.” He even goes on to defend them, “For they know not what they do.” He becomes a lawyer on the cross for the accused, you and me. We need to remember this lesson that he teaches us from the cross because we have difficulty in forgiving even the smallest, most petty offenses against us. More and more, I hear the word devastated. “Father, I’m devastated.” They are devastated by the silliest, smallest, most insignificant affront to their pride. People today speak of sensitivity as if there is not enough of it. Many people suffer from too much of it. They are too sensitive about every silly, little thing and it brings them to tears. You often wonder what they will do when the hard days comes.

Jesus does not teach us this way. He teaches us to forgive those who hurt us, even while they are hurting us. It is not impossible. St. Stephen did it using the same words as he was stoned to death, the first martyr of the Church, the Deacon Stephen. He was stoned in the presence of Paul, whom at that time was known as Saul. Stephen said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”

Many centuries later, St. Thomas More, the saint that we revere here at IHM and one that we have a beautiful building named after, said the same thing. He was Henry VIII‘s chancellor. Henry, because he would not get, could not get his way with the Pope, demanded that all the bishops and priests in the realm take an oath of supremacy to him and acknowledge him as the head of the Church of England. Thomas refused. He was beheaded and his head taken and hung from a bridge in London, but as he died, he said, “Father, forgive them.”

Just last September, a 66-year-old Italian nun, Leonella Sgorbati was killed in Somalia where she worked at the S.O.S. hospital trying to help the poor who had no medical help. She was gunned down because some terrorist took offense at something the Pope said. He went out and killed himself a Catholic. As she lay dying from an assassin’s bullet, her last words in Italian “Io perdono. Io perdono.” Forgive. “I forgive, I forgive.” It is not impossible what Jesus asks of us. Today, we are reminded that forgiveness comes with the deal of discipleship.

“Today you will be with me in paradise.”
These are beautiful words that bring tears to our eyes. They are spoken from the cross to the good thief. I think his name was Dimas or Dismas. I like to think of that story. The other thief said, “If you are the Son of God, why don’t you save yourself and save us too.” He is mocking Christ. The good thief said, “Leave him alone. Get off his case. This man has done nothing. I mean, we deserve the punishment we’re receiving. He’s done nothing.” Then he looked at Jesus and said, “Lord remember me when you come into your kingdom.” Jesus looked at him, can you imagine how difficult that was, and He said, “Today you will be with me in paradise.” I think that was the first confession and the good thief received absolution and forgiveness. He confesses his guilt. We are guilty also. Why can’t we deserve death? That was the thief’s last prayer. Maybe, it was his first prayer.

Bishop Fulton J. Sheen said that a dying man asked a dying man for eternal life. A man without possessions asked a poor man for a kingdom. A thief at the door of death asked to steal paradise …. and he got away with it. It makes the Ocean’s 11 caper look like nothing. I have often visited someone who is dying. Many of them have been away from the Church and away from Christ for many years, sometimes decades. If I can slip in there, sometimes it’s a wife or a brother who says, “Father, get in there.” Sometimes, the person dying can’t speak. If they are really lucky, they can’t speak. I ask them, I say, “Would you like to have your confession heard now that you can’t speak. Just nod.” Mmmm. (Nods head.) “Are you sorry for all the sins of your life.” Mmmmm. (Nodding head vigorously.) I can almost hear Jesus say, “Today you will be with me in paradise.” Many times, I have imposed the Apostolic Blessing of the Church, known as the Apostolic Pardon now.

“Through the holy mysteries of our redemption, may almighty God release you from all punishments in this life and in the life to come. May He open to you the gates of paradise and welcome you to everlasting joy.”

Don’t let anyone you love die without that. Jesus never placed a limit on his mercy and neither should we. Jesus loves every one of us six billion humans walking this planet today with the same fierce love that he loved that thief. He offers each one of us the same deal. Take the deal.

“Woman, behold your son. Son, behold your mother."
He calls Mary woman because woman in Genesis is the name of the first woman. Mary is the new Eve. She makes up for Eve’s “No,” with her “Yes.” Mary was at that cross. I think that was Jesus’ greatest pain.

When my mother was alive, I would pray every day, and I told her this once and she didn’t understand it correctly. I would pray every day that she would die first. She didn’t like that but she, of course, had prayed that herself. What I meant was, in my imagination, the worst thing that could ever happen to my mother would be for her to see me dead. You know what I mean? I prayed that would not happen. Many of you have lost a child. There is no greater cross, no heavier cross you will ever have to bear than that. Mary bore that cross. However, I think Jesus suffered even more at watching her watch him. She was there, Mary. He says, “Woman, behold thy Son.” Then He says, “Behold thy mother.” We think that was John. We’re not sure. I think the reason he didn’t call him John, if that was the case, is because he wanted to address the every man, the every Christian, the every disciple and say to you “Behold your Mother.” This is important and the timing of it is very important. At that moment, Mary became the Mother of the Church. She became your Mother. It says, “The disciple took her into his house,” as we are to take her into our house.

Our late Holy Father John Paul II said, “Know that in difficult times which everyone experiences, you are not alone. Like John, at the foot of the cross, Jesus also gives his Mother to you so that she will comfort you with her tenderness.” It is good that we are here this afternoon at Immaculate Heart of Mary church. She gathers us once more at the foot of her Son’s cross.

"My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?"
This is from Matthew’s Gospel. I hope you have the chance before you go to sleep tonight to read Psalm 22. It is fascinating. This is a psalm of David, written many centuries before Christ. Read Psalm 22 and you will read the passion narrative that occurred centuries later. Jesus fulfilled all these prophecies. You heard the first reading as Morrie read it today from Isaiah, the suffering servant. That is the Hebrew Scriptures written centuries before Christ. How perfectly he fulfilled those prophecies. I often think, to an unbeliever, they must at least admire the great ingenuity of the Gospel writers who put this together. In fact, it would be impossible for them to have done that without them merely transcribing or writing what they had witnessed. "My God, My God, why have you forsaken me?" Who is saying that but the Son of God himself, who took on humanity and who is about to die in his humanity. Yes, Jesus Christ truly died at that moment.

However, those are not words of despair. The one who despairs does not talk to God. The one who talks to God is not despairing. At that moment, Jesus was as far away from the Father as any human person has ever been throughout history. He was in darkness and fear. The reason he was that far away from the Father was that the Scriptures tell us, Jesus became sin. He became sin. It says that in the Bible, as shocking. If it wasn’t in the Scriptures, it would be blasphemy. The Son of God became sin because He took on our sins. God hates sin. At that moment Jesus became sin, every sin that ever had been committed or ever would be committed, He took on. Then He died and He descended into hell where He left that sin. Then on the third day, ascended into heaven, free and clean of sin and we with Him, if we are baptized into Christ Jesus. Jesus became our scapegoat.

You know an ancient Jewish ritual’s once a year and even today, pious Jews celebrate a tradition of the scapegoat. A very small number of Jews celebrate this today but in Jesus’ time, it was the common celebration. The Day of Atonement, when the high priest would take two goats and he would lay his hands on one goat and chase that goat out into the east where the devil lived. The high priest this was symbolic that the high priest put all the sins of humanity or of the Jews for the last year on the goat. That is where the term scapegoat comes from. The high priest chased the goat out into the desert. The good goat they killed and ate... The scapegoat is not all bad. Jesus became our scapegoat but not symbolically. He became the scapegoat in reality. He really did take on all the sins of humanity. Knowing this, we know that no human person at any moment is beyond the pale. No one has ever been deeper into sin than Jesus was at that moment. We need to take that message to places where people need to hear it. You have already heard it. That is what you are doing here. You are lucky. There are people out there that haven’t heard it. They think that they are beyond the pale; that they have sinned too much; that they cannot be saved. Tell them that Jesus was in a darker place than they are.

"I thirst."
This is from John’s gospel. Certainly, He was thirsty. He must have had an unquenchable human thirst. How ironic that He who formed the waters on the Creation at the second day, lacked for water. Of course, it is more a poetic statement. He had a great spiritual thirst. A thirst for the world to purify it and to make it beautiful and to save every soul in the world. Some religions, some Christian religions are very wrong in there understanding of the world. They think the world is evil. It’s life a minefield to be negotiated, you know, so we can get to heaven. We have to hunker down and hide and get through this life. That is not Christian at all. The world is beautiful. It’s broken, it’s filled with sin and it’s the job of the disciples that Jesus sent out, and that’s us, to clean it up and to fix it and to restore it to what it was intended to be, the face of Jesus Christ. Therefore, we do not hate the world. We love the world as Jesus did. We thirst with Jesus for the world for every soul in the world. Like the woman at the well, He said to her, “I thirst. Give me some water.” He thirsted for her faith and He thirsts for your faith as well.

“It is finished”
Also, from John’s Gospel. That is not a word of surrender but a word of triumph. In other words, mission accomplished. What the Father has given me to do I have done. The cross that He gave me to carry, I have carried. The suffering he proposed for me to endure, I have endured. It is done. It is accomplished. I hope we can say those words when our lives end and that we don’t give up until that final day. We don’t through in the towel. Like Jesus we say, “Father, if it be thy will, let this cup pass from me.” The first thing anyone does when the doctor say you have cancer is say, “Let this cup pass from me.” But not thy will, not my will but rather thy will be done. Jesus accepted death as a certitude and knew it has no power, ultimately. As John Donne would say, “Death be not proud.” You are nothing death. You’ve been conquered. I’m not afraid of you. I’ll pass through you to eternal life.

And finally,
“Father into your hands I commend my spirit”
from the Gospel of St. Luke. He finally at the end gives the Father His spirit. He gave everything away. Fulton J. Sheen said, “His garments are consigned to His executioners, His blood to the earth, His body to the grave, His Mother to John, and His soul to His heavenly Father. He entrusted all He had left to His Father in heaven.” What loyalty and what trust. Trust is God’s mercy and love. Trust in God’s mercy and love.

By the way, that was “Into your hands I commend my spirit” was a prayer Jewish children said at their bed at night. Now I lay me down to sleep, they said, “Into your hands I commend my spirit.” I hope we say that prayer every night. May these be your last words tonight. May they be the last words you ever speak in your life. “Father into your hands I commend my spirit.”