Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Homily for January 14, 2007
Liturgical Year C - Cycle I
2th Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Fr. John Carney
Topic: Our Struggle with Sin
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Gospel :
John 2:1-11
"There was a wedding at Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus and his disciples were also invited to the wedding. When the wine ran short, the mother of Jesus said to him, 'They have no wine.' And Jesus said to her, 'Woman, how does your concern affect me? My hour has not yet come.' His mother said to the servers, 'Do whatever he tells you.' Now there were six stone water jars there for Jewish ceremonial washings, each holding twenty to thirty gallons. Jesus told them, 'Fill the jars with water.' So they filled them to the brim. Then he told them, 'Draw some out now and take it to the headwaiter.' So they took it. And when the headwaiter tasted the water that had become wine, without knowing where it came from - although the servers who had drawn the water knew - the headwaiter called the bridegroom and said to him, 'Everyone serves good wine first, and then when people have drunk freely, an inferior one; but you have kept the good wine until now.' Jesus did this as the beginning of his signs at Cana in Galilee and so revealed his glory, and his disciples began to believe in him."
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Every Catholic likes a good wine story. Before one of the masses yesterday, Deacon Bob mentioned that he used this Gospel extensively in his former assignment in Idaho Falls. There was a controversy in town that somehow became a religious controversy. It was concerning the sale of wine in the supermarkets. There were several churches in town that were opposed to it on religious grounds. Bob spoke up from the Catholic perspective on these things and encouraged the people to permit the sale of wine. They lost the first two elections but they won the third one and he attributes that to the fact that he convinced the people that there would be more tax revenues if they sold wine.

I have a wine story that’s funny in a very strange way; maybe it’s not funny. The day my mother died, I was called to her apartment and spent several hours taking care of the details of her death. After several hours, I got in the elevator and there was this little old lady with a cane. I was in my cleric and she looked at me frankly, with hatred. She said, “Are you a Catholic priest?” I said “Yes, Ma’am.” She said shaking her cane, “Jesus Christ did not drink wine. He drank grape juice.” I wasn’t in the mood. And I said, “That’s nonsense. He drank wine, fermented grape juice.” And she hit me with the cane. I went out in the parking lot. It wasn’t even noon. I looked up. I said, “Enough for today.” I’ll never forget that: 21st of November 1997.

Last week I mentioned that the last time Mary speaks in the Gospel, is at this wedding feast at Cana where she says, “Do whatever He tells you.” Of course, she speaks in other ways after that by her presence but the last time she says anything to anyone in the scriptures is at this wedding feast. What great advice Our Mother gives us. “ Do whatever he tells you.” What does Jesus tell us? How are we to know his will? How are we to hear his voice? Occasionally, there are people who claim they hear his voice and I have never yet heard his voice. I have received no messages directly from the Lord. I don’t doubt that some people do hear his voice but unfortunately I haven’t had that experience.

The answer to: How do we learn his will? is to rephrase the question: How do we come to know anything? We have to be taught and we have to be willing to listen. We have to be willing to learn. Nobody simply knows math or English or history or farming. Nobody’s born with that knowledge. They had to be taught and they had to be willing to listen and to learn. What is true about the way we learn in earthly things is essentially true of how we learn spiritual things. We have to be taught and we have to listen and be willing to learn. We cannot sit back and propose that each one of us knows all when it comes to the spirit. There’s this kind of idea though, in the matters of the spirit of religion that everyone is their own guru, or their own expert. That is certainly not and never has been the Catholic take on that question. Jesus made his will for us, his teachings easy for us to learn. Of course he did. It would be cruel of him to want us to do and live in a certain way without telling us and we’re supposed to figure it out on our own somehow without him speaking to us. He wouldn’t do that. You wouldn’t do that to your children. You wouldn’t say to your children, “You have to learn math.” “Teach me.” “Oh no, you have to figure it out.” I mean, that’s ridiculous and so he’s made it easy. Jesus teaches us today in the scripture as he has always taught us in the scripture. We know the Ten Commandments. But more importantly we know the Beatitudes. The Beatitudes are more important in my view than the Commandments. The Commandments are. “Thou shalt not… more or less most of them are negative things. They’re common sense and most every religion in the world recognizes those Ten Commandments as valid. However, in the Beatitudes, Jesus tells us to take on attitudes of humility and meekness and gentleness and mercy and to be a peacemaker. If we have those attitudes internalized as he did, then our decisions will be good ones. We just naturally won’t sin.

He also teaches us how to be a disciple. “If you want to follow me, you must pick up your cross every day and follow me” without whining about it. I think that’s one of the problems with suffering. I think you don’t get credit for suffering if you complain too much. That is part of being a disciple, to suffer. It comes with the agreement.

Jesus also teaches us through his apostles, that’s why he selected them; that’s why he trained them; that’s why he empowered and commissioned them to spread the Gospel then and now. The apostles are alive and well in the church and there are more than twelve because they are represented today in the bishops. The bishops have the responsibility to teach us. That’s the principle job of the bishop is to teach. The principle job of the priest is to preach. Therefore, the bishops teach us through their writings. Usually each month Archbishop Michael has a message for us, generally it’s a teaching, his teaching, which is of course Catholic teaching. He has that authority, that responsibility and we have the responsibility to listen attentively to him. The Holy Father teaches us in encyclicals and other writings. We learn about even current issues, like stem-cell research, abortion, and euthanasia. The bishops have the responsibility; the Pope has that responsibility to teach us; a responsibility given by Jesus Christ himself that can be proven in the scriptures.

We have a catechism today that is the best catechism the Catholic Church has ever had. It was a gift of John Paul II and it is superb. I hope every family here has the catechism at home. If you haven’t read the catechism please do yourself a favor and buy one and read it. I’ll tell you something that will surprise you: you’ll enjoy it. It is that well written and it’s based on scripture. It’s just infused with scripture and it’s not only the “Thou shalt nots…” it starts with the Creed and what do we mean by that Creed. Many pages are devoted just to that subject. So the Catechism is an excellent reference guide that we all should have. Today, more than ever in the Church’s history, there are current apologists who have books and films and CD’s. There are CD’s in the back if the church. I commend them to you. They’re excellent. We have Scott Hahn and Patrick Madrid, a native New Mexican. There’s George Wigel who I often talk about. He’s a great apologist and teaches today. I encourage you to use our library. Anything in the library or any of those CD’s should be solid Catholic teaching. That library isn’t a universal, ecumenical library that gives everyone’s opinion about everything. It’s a Catholic library and so if you find something in there that you think is objectionable bring it to me and I’ll look at it.

Jesus teaches us through art and literature. I want to say Michelangelo wasn’t a painter; he was a theologian who painted. Many of you I’m sure have seen the Pieta? You didn’t just go, “Well there it is. Isn’t that nice. What else you got?” You spent time and looked at it. It was a prayerful moment and you learned about the beauty of Jesus’ sacrifice and the love of his mother. We have no excuse not to know what Jesus teaches us. No excuse. We will be judged on two things: how we followed our conscience; everyone likes that part. We’ll be judged on how we followed our conscience but we’ll be judged equally on how we formed it. We form it according to the teachings of Jesus Christ and his holy church.

Now, here’s the problem: we know what Jesus teaches. We know what’s right. We know what’s wrong. There’s no excuse not to. But we don’t always do it, do we? You’re not admitting anything. When we don’t do it it’s called sin and everyone here is a sinner. No one here can cast that first stone. Therefore, know what is right and wrong. Sometimes we sin. Paul said it so well and this is Paul after his conversion. Paul heard the voice of Christ, knocked him off his horse. Paul said, “The good I wish to do, I do not do and the evil I wish to avoid, I do.” He’s talking about sin. He knew what was right and wrong. Paul also said, “I have a thorn in my flesh.” There was something that kept him, probably some sin of some sort. We don’t know, no one knows. He said, “Three times I asked God to take this from me, and three times He said, “My grace is sufficient for you. In weakness, Paul, when you know you’re a sinner, when you know you’re weak, when you know you’re not strong it’s then that you’re right with me. Then you know who you are and it’s then you know who I am.”

I’d like to conclude with a poem by John Donne, A Hymn to God the Father. I think every confessor knows this poem because we struggle with sin and forgiveness and sin and forgiveness and sin and forgiveness. I think that the best thing we can do is just keep trying, all of us, whatever our sins are. By the way, over a lifetime of a well-lead life the sins change because the closer we are to Christ the more we are aware of his love the greater our sins are in many ways. What would not have been a sin years ago when we were in darkness becomes a grave sin now when we know what God expects of us, when we know how he loves us.

 If you would bow your heads and make this poem a prayer:

Wilt thou forgive that sin where I begun,
Which was my sin, though it were done before?
Wilt thou forgive that sin, through which I run,
And do run still, though still I do deplore?
When thou hast done, thou hast not done,
For I have more.

Wilt thou forgive that sin which I have won
Others to sin, and made my sin their door?
Wilt thou forgive that sin which I did shun
A year or two, but wallow'd in, a score?
When thou hast done, thou hast not done,
For I have more.

I have a sin of fear, that when I have spun
My last thread, I shall perish on the shore;
But swear by thyself, that at my death thy Son
Shall shine as he shines now, and heretofore;
And, having done that, thou hast done;
I fear no more.

May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins and bring us all to everlasting life. Amen.