Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Homily for December 10, 2006
Liturgical Year C - Cycle I
2nd Sunday of Advent
By Fr. John Carney
Topic:  What Really Matters
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Reading I
Bar 5:1-9
Jerusalem
, take off your robe of mourning and misery; put on the splendor of glory from God forever: wrapped in the cloak of justice from God, bear on your head the mitre that displays the glory of the eternal name.  For God will show all the earth your splendor: you will be named by God forever the peace of justice, the glory
of God's worship.

Up, Jerusalem! stand upon the heights; look to the east and see your children gathered from the east and the west at the word of the Holy One, rejoicing that they are remembered by God.  Led away on foot by their enemies they left you: but God will bring them back to you borne aloft in glory as on royal thrones.  For God has commanded that every lofty mountain be made low, and that the age-old depths and gorges be filled to level ground, that Israel may advance secure in the glory of God.  The forests and every fragrant kind of tree have overshadowed Israel at God(s command; for God is leading Israel in joy by the light of his glory, with his mercy and justice for company.

Reading II
Phil 1:4-6, 8-11
Brothers and sisters: I pray always with joy in my every prayer for all of you, because of your partnership for the gospel from the first day until now.  I am confident of this, that the one who began a good work in you will continue to complete it until the day of Christ Jesus.  God is my witness, how I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.  And this is my prayer: that your love may increase ever more and more in knowledge and every kind of perception, to discern what is of value, so that you may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ for the glory and praise of God.

Gospel

Lk 3:1-6
In the fifteenth year of the reign of Tiberius Caesar, when Pontius Pilate was governor of Judea, and Herod was tetrarch of Galilee, and his brother Philip tetrarch of the region of Ituraea and Trachonitis, and Lysanias was tetrarch of Abilene, during the high priesthood of Annas and Caiaphas, the word of God came to John the son of Zechariah in the desert.  John went throughout the whole region of the Jordan,  proclaiming a baptism of repentance for the forgiveness of sins,  as it is written in the book of the words of the prophet Isaiah: A voice of one crying out in the desert: “Prepare the way of the Lord, make straight his paths.  Every valley shall be filled and every mountain and hill shall be made low.  The winding roads shall be made straight, and the rough ways made smooth, and all flesh shall see the salvation of God.”

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Christmas is in two weeks and yet in this second Sunday of Advent, the liturgy, the reading and the prayers do not point us towards Christmas.  They point us towards Christ’s coming at the end of time.  The season of Advent is a penitential season to some degree and from the first Sunday of Advent until December 17, we look forward to Christ coming at the end of time; in other words, our own death.  Then from December 18 until Christmas day, we focus on that earlier coming of Christ at Christmas.  The focus then is on the end time.  As I looked through the readings, I wanted to grab one sentence that could summarize the message that the Church wishes us to hear today and I took this sentence from Paul’s letter.  “This is my prayer: that your love may increase ever more and more to discern what is of value so that you may be pure and blameless on the day of Christ Jesus.”  He prayed that we may discern what is of value.  Other translations say that we may learn to value those things that really matter.  What are those things that really matter?  Well, I’ll give my answer and I think you’ll share it. 
 
Number one is my immortal soul, my relationship with God, and my relationship with you, with my neighbor.  That first priority we need to get that right.  That is what John tells us, “to make everything straight, to get yourself right”.  Just a word of advice to many of us; quit trying to fix the whole world and go home and start working on yourself and ask yourself the question, “Where do I stand now, at this moment before God?”  It is good to make a spiritual assessment of ourselves. 
 
A couple of weeks ago I had my annual physical with Dr. Paul Daley, a wonderful physician.  There are so many great doctors in our town.  I was impressed at the whole procedure.  You know, you have to have your blood work several days ahead.  You go in there and Daley knows more about me than I know about me.  He has this contraption, looks like a clipboard but it’s a touch-pad, an electronic gizmo of some sort.  In this thing, he has everything; he has all my medicines, all my history.  So he says, “Your cholesterol, what was it last year, the year before…?”, and I couldn’t believe it.  He just had all this stuff.  I said, “You know, this is good.”  We spend a lot of money and a lot of time worrying about our health and the best way to do that, of course, is preventative maintenance which I’m not doing much of but…
 
What we need to do is to take our souls just as seriously as or even more seriously than our bodies.  It is not that our soul is better than our body.  We’ll be together body and soul for all eternity.  How exactly God is going to put that together, we haven’t figured out yet but He will do it. 
 
I’m reading a book now by Anthony DeStefano, A Travel Guide to Heaven.  I have never even thought about some of the things that DeStefano’s saying.  He says that heaven is a physical place because we’re there with our body and it will be these bodies but somehow they’re all going to be perfect and there’ll be colors and sounds, tastes and music, everything.  It is going to be fabulous.  I really recommend this book to you, A Travel Guide to Heaven.
 
We take a lot of good care of our bodies here and not enough good care of our souls.  We need to examine our conscience every night.  It should be part of our life.  Before you go to sleep, look back on the day.  We can all remember just twenty-four hours and what did you do right, what did you do wrong.  I try to do that.  In fact, it is part of the Liturgy of the Hours, a brief examination of conscience.  Every once in a while I look back and I had a good day, a perfect day.  That’s usually when you people kept me too busy to get into trouble of any kind. 
 
Now examine yourself but don’t be petty, or scrupulous.  Don’t make more laws than God gives us.  Remember who you are.  You’re a human person and we have a built-in system of what we call concupiscence, a fancy word which means we have a tendency to do things wrong.  We have a tendency to sin, don’t we, don’t you, don’t I?  Amen.  With that knowledge and with God’s grace we can improve and be holy.  God gives us all the grace, that is his gift.  Grace is an interactive gift.  Unless it’s accepted and used, it’s not effective.  That is part of grace--to be accepted and to be used and then we need to take ourselves seriously.  We have an annual physical.  Although I know some people who haven’t seen a doctor in forty years and who are in very good health.  However, for most of us, we need to confess our sins, the Church says at least once a year and I am praying for the day when that is all I will need.  However, if you are too proud to confess your sins, you are too proud to go to heaven and I know that I am speaking to some people now that have not been to confession in ten, twenty, or thirty years.  I am talking about Catholics.  All sorts of explanations like, “It’s not really needed,” like you have your own catechism at home that you wrote.  Jesus Christ gave us this wonderful sacrament because we need to take a shower in his mercy from time to time and to be cleansed.  What a gift it is.  What a wonderful feeling to walk out of the confessional to know at least for that moment, I am in good shape.  Right, Joanna?  Joanna had her first confession yesterday.  Good job.  And she did great. 
 
Let me be honest, I worry about many of you, I do.  You’re just not using the sacraments that you need that God gives you.  So please consider that.  By the way, we’ve been very busy in confessions lately before Christmas and for the ones that go every week, would you give me a break, please?  Just wait, because there are some big fish out there that we want to make sure…
 
My first priority has to be my immortal soul, and secondly, my love for God.  We need to spend time in prayer.  I know just about every other person in confession says, “I can’t concentrate,” as if that is a sin, no that’s just part of your human nature.  It is hard to concentrate in prayer.  More and more, I’m recommending people to do spiritual reading.  There are millions of books that are excellent, such as the lives of the saints, works of the saints, books of meditation.  Do spiritual reading as part of your prayer because we can concentrate on a chapter for thirty minutes and you will be blessed by that.  I’m trying to turn the TV off at night and fall asleep to spiritual reading.  Since I’ve started that, my dreams have been saner and my rest has been greater and deeper.  Also, in prayer, focus on thanksgiving and praise.  Go into prayer and “kiss up” to God.  Tell him how great he is and how much you love him and appreciate him.
 
Thirdly, we need to love each other, and that is mostly doing the small things right.  Jesus teaches us how to love our neighbor.  Read the Gospel and you will see that oftentimes his apostles were frustrated with him.  They wanted him to be this great big messiah, a political figure, to free Israel and Jesus was just dealing with the next person he met and the next person he met.  The Gospels are a story of him touching people, meeting people on the road in villages, curing people, touching lepers and the blind, but eating with tax collectors and sinners.  If you notice everyone he encounters, he respects and he treats with great dignity, and great love with the exception of the religious leaders, many of whom were hypocrites.  That is what we are to do, not so much love each other in big ways but in little ways.  I was reading a reflection in a book called Wisdom of the Sands by a French author.  It is a story about a king who had great responsibility.  He’s praying to God in this meditation, and he’s reminding himself that his obligation to love his neighbor extends to the little person, the next person he meets.  He writes,
 
O Lord, I (would prefer to) safeguard the nobility of my warriors and the beauty of our temples, for which men barter their all, and which give meaning to their lives.  But walking tonight…I came (upon) a little girl in tears.  Gently, I drew her head back so as to see her eyes, and the grief I read in them abashed me.  If, O Lord, I give no heed to this, I am excluding a part of life, and my task is incomplete.  Not that I turn away from any of the lofty goals I set before me – but that little girl must be consoled.  Thus alone will all go well with the world; for in her, too, the meaning of the world is manifest.”
 
What really matters? 
You do and your love of God and your love of that little girl.