Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Homily for November 12, 2006
Liturgical Year B - Cycle II
32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Fr. John Carney
Topic: Let us be Thanks Givers.
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Reading I
1 Kgs 17:10-16
In those days, Elijah the prophet went to Zarephath.  As he arrived at the entrance of the city, a widow was gathering sticks there; he called out to her, "Please bring me a small cupful of water to drink."  She left to get it, and he called out after her, "Please bring along a bit of bread."  She answered, "As the LORD, your God, lives, I have nothing baked; there is only a handful of flour in my jar and a little oil in my jug.  Just now I was collecting a couple of sticks, to go in and prepare something for myself and my son; when we have eaten it, we shall die."  Elijah said to her, "Do not be afraid.  Go and do as you propose.  But first make me a little cake and bring it to me.  Then you can prepare something for yourself and your son.  For the LORD, the God of Israel, says, 'The jar of flour shall not go empty, nor the jug of oil run dry, until the day when the LORD sends rain upon the earth.'"  She left and did as Elijah had said.  She was able to eat for a year, and he and her son as well; the jar of flour did not go empty, nor the jug of oil run dry, as the LORD had foretold through Elijah.

Gospel
Mk 12:41-44
Jesus sat down opposite the treasury and observed how the crowd put money into the treasury.  Many rich people put in large sums. A poor widow also came and put in two small coins worth a few cents.  Calling his disciples to himself, he said to them, "Amen, I say to you, this poor widow put in more than all the other contributors to the treasury.  For they have all contributed from their surplus wealth, but she, from her poverty, has contributed all she had, her whole livelihood."
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What a beautiful morning.  I usually come over on Sunday about 6:30 or 7:00 a.m.  to turn on the heat so you can be comfy.  I read a report that people give more money when they’re comfortable.  Anyway, I’d opened the gate of the rectory yard, there were seven deer, two bucks, and they had very small racks, and five doe.  I assume they were doe.  I went right up to them.  They were from me to Kevin (indicating the first row) and they just looked at me.  I went like this and one of them stomped his leg and I stomped my leg.  I guess they thought I was St. Francis.  Could be, you know?  It is uncanny, though, that they were not afraid.  I don’t know what that was all about.  I must be glowing!
 
Two years before the Declaration of Independence was signed, a woman was born in New York City by the name of Elizabeth Bayley.  She was born into a wealthy and privileged family and her life started out just great.  She fell in love, even as a teenager, to the man that she would marry.  By the age of twenty, she married William Seton.  They had a beautiful home and the whole world was in front of them.  They had five children rather quickly, I think in about five years.  William Seton was a successful businessman.  He had businesses in the United States and in Europe and things were going well.  He contracted tuberculosis and they decided to move to Italy so that he could live in a better climate, as well as attend to his business.  Things got worse.  Indeed, the business failed.  He had to declare bankruptcy and then he died.  Elizabeth with her five young children was stranded in Italy.  An Italian family, whom she came to love very much, befriended her.  They cared for her and her family and they were able to provide passage so she could return to the United States with her five kids.
 
Elizabeth decided to convert to Catholicism because of the example of that Italian family and their love of the Catholic faith,.  In doing so, she alienated her family who would no longer support her.  One of the reasons she wanted to become Catholic is because her mother died at a young age and she needed a mom and the Catholic faith comes with Mary.  Therefore, she did her best.  She took a job teaching school, not making much money but just enough to get by.  When her five children were grown, she told a friend, “I’d like to retire from the turmoil of the world and lead a life of prayer, a simple life.  But God wants me to do something else and I must always choose God’s will over my own.”  What she thought that God wanted her to do and indeed what God wanted her to do, was to be the foundress of the American Order of the Sisters of Charity.  The Sisters of Charity followed the rules that St. Vincent de Paul had founded many years before in France but had no foundation in the U.S.  She received the permission of the Archbishop Cardinal of Baltimore and began The Sisters of Charity.  She began through her efforts the Parochial, Catholic Parochial School System in the U.S. that many of us have benefited from.  Anybody?  Many have of course. 
 
Interestingly too, that Parochial School System not only benefited you and me and our Church, but the United States; because in addition to the three “R’s” a lot of people learned about ethics and the right way of living.  Of course, I’m talking about Elizabeth Ann Seton.  She was canonized in 1975 as the first American born saint and she gave her life, all of her life to serve God and his people.
 
I mention her because she was a single mother, had lost her husband and was a widow, like the two widows in the scriptures today.  She gave not of her excess or of her surplus but of her very substance to serve God and his people. 
 
Let me give you just a little background about the first widow we encounter in Elijah.  Of course Elijah is fleeing from King Ahab and Jezebel.  Ahab has taken Jezebel, a foreigner as his wife, she had introduced the worship of false Gods into Israel, and of course, Elijah, the great prophet condemned her for that. Indeed, he fought the prophets of Baal and defeated them.  He was on the run because Jezebel wanted his head.  He encounters this widow in the time of drought, the drought that God had sent to punish Israel.  He encounters the widow who was about to die herself and says, “Give me a little something to eat.”  She gives of her very substance to him.  Of course, we know that the jar did not go empty or the jug run dry for the next year for her and her son.
 
The other widow gave her two mites, her coins.  Some years ago, a parishioner gave me the widow’s mite, a tiny little coin.  It looks like a pebble almost and of course, it is worn down by age.  This coin is believed to be the coin that this widow donated to the purse.  Jesus proclaims her as great.  He says, “She gave more than all the others because she gave of her very substance, of her very life not of her excess or of her surplus.” 
 
Clearly, the lesson today is asking us to look at how we give.  What kind of giver are you?  What kind of giver am I?  Father Mark Link, a Jesuit priest categorizes three kinds of givers.  The first are the grudge givers and I haven’t encountered those people.  He claims grudge givers give because they hate to give but they need to, to avoid embarrassment or something. 
 
The second kind of giver he describes, I think we’re aware of, and that’s the duty giver, the person who says, “I ought to give.”  Or “I have an obligation to give.”  I think that probably describes quite a few of us.  Mark Link, I think correctly says that that’s not the right reason to give, not because you should and not because you have an obligation. 
 
The right reason to give is to be a “thanks giver” as he calls them.  These are people who give because they want to give.  They consider it a privilege to give.  There is no obligation.  There is no pressure.  It is just something that makes them feel good, makes them happy and fulfills their innermost self.
 
Thanksgiving is in twelve days, hard to believe.  Those weren’t seven turkeys out there by the rectory this morning or they’d be in trouble.  It is a good time I think for us to prepare for Thanksgiving.  We prepare correctly in Advent for Christmas, in Lent for Easter.  You know, Thanksgiving, although a secular holiday, is really a religious holiday as well and it’s a time that we give thanks to God and think about our own giving habits.  I would challenge all of us to ask the question, “What kind of giver are you?”  Do you love to give?  Do you consider it a privilege to give?  One thing’s for sure is that we will never out-give God.  We will never outdo Him in His generosity.  Our jar will not go empty or our jugs go dry.  Give to others and God will give to you.  Indeed, you will receive a full measure, a generous helping poured into your hand, all that you can hold.  The measure you use for others is the measure God will use for you.
 
You know all repentant sinners can go to heaven.  First, we need to repent.  We know that there are many saints who were lustful, who were even murderers, and hateful who repented.  However,  I don’t think there’s anybody in heaven who’s cheap; no cheap people in heaven.  This is important; this question of generosity is at the very heart of what it means to be a disciple of Jesus Christ.  So please, if you would bow your heads and we’ll pray.
 
Heavenly Father, give us hearts filled with charity.  We ask you for life and you give us abundant life.  We ask you for a place to live and you bless us with this land of enchantment.  We ask you for water and you bless us with rain and snow.  We ask you for something to eat and you feed us with the body and blood of your son.  Loving God, give us the heart of Jesus your son who gave from his substance for us.  Help us to be generous to others.  May we never give grudgingly or even out of a sense of obligation, rather may we be “thanks givers” giving from our very selves.  Father, help us to live a life of charity.  
 
May the prayer of St. Ignatius of Loyola be our prayer:
Dearest Lord, teach us to be generous. 
Teach us to serve you as you deserve; to give and not to count the cost.  To fight and not to heed the wounds; to toil and not to seek for rest to labor and not ask for any reward except that of knowing that I am doing your will.  Through Christ our Lord, Amen
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