Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church

Homily for October 22, 2006
Liturgical Year B - Cycle II
29th Sunday in Ordinary Time
By Fr. John Carney
Topic:  Serving Others
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Gospel
Mk 10:35-45
James and John, the sons of Zebedee, came to Jesus and said to him, "Teacher, we want you to do for us whatever we ask of you." He replied, "What do you wish me to do for you?" They answered him, "Grant that in your glory we may sit one at your right and the other at your left." Jesus said to them, "You do not know what you are asking. Can you drink the cup that I drink or be baptized with the baptism with which I am baptized?" They said to him, "We can." Jesus said to them, "The cup that I drink, you will drink, and with the baptism with which I am baptized, you will be baptized; but to sit at my right or at my left is not mine to give but is for those for whom it has been prepared." When the ten heard this, they became indignant at James and John. Jesus summoned them and said to them, "You know that those who are recognized as rulers over the Gentiles lord it over them, and their great ones make their authority over them felt. But it shall not be so among you. Rather, whoever wishes to be great among you will be your servant; whoever wishes to be first among you will be the slave of all. For the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve and to give his life as a ransom for many."
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Usually on Sunday night, I try to look at the readings for the following weekend and see what the general theme is and then kind of have that in my head so I can cogitate about it throughout the week.  Last Sunday, I looked at the readings for this Sunday, the 29th Sunday in Ordinary Time.  The theme was service or suffering service, or sacrificial service and I said to myself, “Didn’t we just do that?”  Sure enough, I looked back at the last several weeks and indeed, four of the seven, past seven weeks the theme was service.  “’Whoever will be first must be last.  Whoever will be first must be the slave of all.”  Etc.  I have to admit that I said, ‘You know, I wish the editor or the redactor of the lectionary had spread it around a little bit more.’”  It’s hard to speak on the same subject, especially when you have limited imagination.
 
Then I realized that the lectionary is true to Mark’s Gospel; that Mark keeps talking about service and service and service.  So, I asked God’s forgiveness and I said, “Well, I’ll get on with this week’s preparation.”  Of course, the purpose of the Gospel is to teach us how to live and how to get to heaven.  What Mark is saying and what Jesus is saying in Mark, and what God is telling us is that if you want to get to heaven, you have to be a servant.  If you want to live the Christian life, you have to serve others.  It is not an extra.  This notion that all you have to do is proclaim Jesus is Lord and Savior and you’re saved is nonsense.  That is the first step but service follows that commitment to Christ.  “If you love me, keep my commandments.  If you love me, serve others."
 
We see that discipleship and servanthood are not only connected, they are intimately connected.  If you look at the lives of the saints, you will see that.  There’s a thread connecting them and that is the thread of service.  They gave their lives in service to others.
 
Yesterday, I was able to sneak a little bit of the Notre Dame game.  I have the four o’clock Mass and the game is always on and I’m grouchy at that Mass but I’m there.  I think that Notre Dame is the only team with their own television station.  They don’t even try to be impartial, you know, you will root for Notre Dame if you watch that game.  I think it’s an excellent thing, personally.  Before the game, Vonage always shows a picture of the Grotto at Notre Dame.  Have some of you been to Notre Dame and seen the Grotto?  It’s the Grotto of Our Lady or Lourdes.  In fact, that Grotto was one of the reasons the American people have such a great love of Our Lady under the title of Our Lady of Lourdes.  In the grotto, there is a statue of Tom Dooley, who gave his life in service for others.  I don’t mean, (singing) “Hang down your head Tom Dooley.”  It’s not that Tom Dooley but the other Tom Dooley.
 
He went to Notre Dame and he served in the U.S. Navy as a medical doctor.  Shortly after the fall of Dien Bien Phu in Vietnam, when the communists took over Vietnam, Tom Dooley was actually part of the Navy’s effort in Hai Phong, which is in the north part of the country. They would take refugees out and try to get them to safety.  He fell in love with the people of Southeast Asia and when he left the Navy he returned there and worked mostly in Laos, in Cambodia and in Vietnam for a number of years in setting up clinics and helping people.  As a matter of fact, when he finished his work, and it was only a few years, he died at the age of 34, in 1961.  When he finished his work over 610,000 people had medical services that they didn’t have before Dooley got to Southeast Asia.  Dooley gave his life in service for others.  Before he died, he wrote the president of Notre Dame, Father Ted Hesburgh a letter.  He said, “No matter where I go, I know God is present.  I have experienced the presence of God greatly in Southeast Asia.  I love these people.  But I experienced God’s presence greatest at the Grotto in Notre Dame and I long to be there and I hope to visit again before the snow melts.”  He didn’t get his wish.  He died of cancer before that.
 
I visited Notre Dame two years ago and was at the Grotto before the game with a friend of mine.  He’s a dentist in Albuquerque.  Jim Fanning, his name is.  Maybe some of you know the Fannings.  Jim’s a big tough guy.  As we were standing there in the Grotto, looking at that plaque with Dooley’s letter, I looked over at Jim and he was crying just like a baby.  He said crying, “I’m sorry Father but every time I come here…” He was so inspired that he cried. I was thinking, “My goodness, God is still using Tom Dooley to touch people’s hearts.”  Later that day I cried when Purdue shellacked the Irish.
 
You know, you can have your cake and eat it too.  The psychiatrist, Karl Menninger said, “Generous people are generally mentally healthy and conversely stinginess is a sign of neurosis.”  Serve others and you will be fulfilled.  Be generous and you will be blessed.  Sacrifice for others and you will be richly blessed.  You know, it all begins in the family.  I read a letter recently about peace in the world and we’ll never be successful in bringing about peace out there until we bring it about in our families and in our workplace. It starts in the family.  That’s true for peace and that’s true for service, especially, sacrificial service.  In Isaiah and with this prediction or prophecy of the suffering service Isaiah said, “Through his suffering, my servant shall justify many and their guilt he shall bear.”  Jesus, of course, fulfilled that prophesy.  As he says in Mark’s Gospel, “The son of man did not come to be served but to serve.  To give his life as a ransom for many.”
 
One little story written by or told by a writer named J. Allan Peterson is a true story, a simple little story, and it’s about a family.  The teenage son was often late from school, sometimes very late, sometimes well after dark. The parents worried about him.  They tried every imaginable technique to get him to obey and to keep the rules but he just consistently was late, as teenage boys can do.  Finally, the father says, “The next time you’re late and you sit down to dinner, in front of you will be bread and water.  Maybe that will teach you a lesson.”  It wasn’t long after that, of course, he was late and he came to the dinner table.  To make things worse, he was starving to death.  In front of him was a plate with one piece of white bread and a glass of water.  His parents had plates of meat and potatoes.  They said Grace and then his father got up and switched his plate for his son.  He sat there, ate the bread, and drank the water.  When that boy grew up, he said, “I will never forget what my father did for me that day.  In a little way, he taught me what God is like.”  I will guarantee you that boy was never late again.
 
Isn’t it true, we do the right thing out of love more than out of fear of punishment; a little story that begins in the family.  You know I mentioned the redundancy of this theme of service but really, every time we gather to celebrate the Holy Mass, that is the theme: sacrificial service.  Look at the crucifix and look at the altar.  What we do here Sunday after Sunday or even day after day, is to participate in Jesus’ perfect act of sacrifice. We offer the gifts.  We offer our own lives up and God accepts those gifts as he accepted the sacrifice of his son and it changes us into him, into the body and blood of Christ in some small way.
 
If you want to be a disciple, you have to serve.  You have to serve sacrificially.  Serve your family, your community, and others.