Faith is
confident assurance
concerning what you hope for and the convictions about things you do
not
see. This life is not all there is and
we
are searching for a better heavenly home. So we have faith. How do
we know
how much faith we have and how do we know the measure of our
faith?
I think the answer is
given by Christ when he said, "Do
not live in fear little flock, it
has
pleased
the Father to give you the kingdom.”
(Luke
12:32)
Fear is the opposite of faith to the extent that if you are
afraid and anxious--then to that extent
you
lack
faith. Conversely, the greater your
faith, the less fear and anxiety you experience. Having
said that, there is no question that a significant number
of people suffer from anxiety--from a physiological or physiological
nature. I’m not talking about
that type of anxiety. I’m talking about
the majority of
people who suffer from fear and anxiety because they’re not living
their faith
to the fullest. I know because I
hear
it in confession all the time. There is so
much fear and so much anxiety in our lives.
I frankly think it’s an indictment against us, to some degree,
that we
don’t truly trust God and his holy providence. Fear is so destructive.
There are so
many proverbs
on fear. The English say, “All fear is
bondage.” That’s true. If you are
afraid
you are imprisoned. “Fear is greater
than danger,” the Swedes say. The French say, “He who fears to suffer,
suffers
from fear.” Let me repeat that, “He who
fears to suffer,
suffers from fear.” That’s true. I'll ask, "What are you afraid of?" "Well, I’m afraid of what might happen."
Someone
last night said, “Well, today is the
tomorrow that you were afraid of yesterday and it turned out OK” You are going to suffer and I’m going to
suffer. That’s part of life. When we suffer, we are going to be
miserable but
why be miserable now. Wait for it, it’ll come.
“It is folly to fear what one cannot avoid.”
That makes sense. Anyone here not going to die?
Why
are we so afraid of death if we have
great faith in Christ and his love for us?
I like this one. It’s the Czech
proverb, “He who dies from fear is not worth a place in the churchyard.” So, how’s your faith? Another
way of asking that is how much fear
and anxiety do you experience in your life or are you at peace. Peace is the gift of faith.
Peace is a part of faith. I'm speaking of the inner
peace that Christ gives that the world cannot give and the world cannot
take away. It’s the peace that God gives
you.
Around us are so
many
examples of great faith and great peace.
We’ve been praying for many weeks now for one of our
parishioners. She’s
in Cleveland now recovering from a
second surgery. We’re not sure if she‘s
going to make it. She called me and we
spoke about whether or not she should have the surgery.
She said, “You know Father, I really don’t
care one way or another. Whatever.” She
says, “I wish John would come and take me home.”
That’s her beloved husband who died a few years back.
When she said that, there was no self-pity, no great sadness.
Just a
fervent prayer--a wish to die.
Tony’s sister
Celeste is in
Sombrillo Nursing Home now. She’s
91. I visit her about once a week or
so. I don’t know about you but I don’t
want to end up in a nursing home. Every
time I go, I say, “No Lord, no. I don’t
want to be here. I want to die at my
peak and just go.” I know I speak for
most of us. You know it’s not the best life.
It’s a wonderful facility, Sombrillo but I
don’t want to live there. Anyway, I
visited Celeste last night
and I said, “Celeste, how are you?” Her Yonkers
New York accent replies, "Very good Father, very good.”
“How are your friends?” “Wonderful
Father.” I said, “How’s the food?” “Oh, it’s delicious.” I
visited a nursing home that day and I had
all sorts of stuff on my mind. I was
anxious. I preach this stuff but I don’t live it very well.
I’m just as messed up as you. I
left there feeling free. She inspired me.
There is another
lady there who is 101. Her name is Amalia. I
don’t know her last name. I always
visit her because she is such a blessing and she always gives me a
blessing. She has the same answer every
time. I say, “Como esta Amalia?”
She says, “Muy bien, Padre. Estoy
muy contente a con mi Dios et mi
familia.” I am very content with my God
and my family. She can’t see.
She can’t
stand up. She can’t read. She doesn’t hear that well.
She probably has
no
appetite. And yet, "Estoy muy contente . . ."
I am very content with my God and my family.
The Old Spanish custom was for mothers and
fathers to bless their families. They
had this formula and it would take a minute or so.
How many of you know those old blessings? I
hope you have taken the time to pass them
on to your sons and daughters. Anyway, Amalia is so happy and she has
nothing. She’s a great model and you
know people like that. She’s not
afraid. Why? Because
she has faith.
The writer Harry
Fosdick
wrote, “Fear
imprisons, faith liberates; fear paralyzes, faith empowers;
fear
disheartens, faith encourages; fear sickens, faith heals; fear makes
useless,
faith makes serviceable. Most
of all fear puts hopelessness at the heart of life while faith rejoices
in its
God.”
Finally, this
prayer from St.
Francis De Sales,